Category Archives: Beaded

VPOD: Vintage 1950s Beaded Peacock Sweater and the Magic of Moodling


vintage 1950s beaded cashmere peacock sweater

I’m a firm believer in what Brenda Ueland calls moodling, “long inefficient, happy idling, dawdling and puttering.”

In a weird time-twisting way, I’ve discovered that one secret to getting a lot done is being willing to spend a lot of time alone doing nothing at all!

Gazing out a window with a cup of tea. Soaking in a bath. Sitting still and paying attention to the breath.

And listening. Lots of listening.

But not to the radio or the TV or a favorite selection in iTunes. Listening to the sounds of silence around me.

The hum of a heater. A distant ambulance siren. The rumble of the FedEx truck. The pitter-patter of a squirrel scampering across the roof.

It reminds me of years ago when it was necessary to let my car idle for a few minutes before shifting it out of park. My mechanic insisted that it needed this time to warm-up every morning in order to keep the engine functioning properly.

And so it is with our lives.

We all need to do a little idling to keep our imaginations warmed-up and working smoothly.

And like so many skills in life, if you don’t use it, you lose it.

As kids, we were all fabulous moodlers. Yes, even you.

Maybe you can remember gazing up at the sky and being mesmerized by the shifting shape of the clouds or a twinkling blanket of stars. My nephew once watched a parade of ants at a picnic for half an hour. I could spend an entire morning searching for four-leaf clovers in an empty lot near my house. And I remember once when a bunch of us neighborhood kids dug a hole for two straight days just to see how deep we could make it!

No adult would ever engage in such foolishness, right?

Well, thank goodness some grown-ups still do or we wouldn’t have things like wonderful literature, breathtaking art, ingenious gadgets, toe-tapping music, scientific breakthroughs and inspiring films.

Moodling, without a doubt, is an integral part of the creative process, which means it’s not just for the artists and inventors of the world.

It’s a worthwhile activity for moms and dads, employees, students and business owners, too.

Doodling. Coloring. Humming. Skipping. Daydreaming. Zoning out.

Perhaps more grown-up moodling is just the prescription needed to remedy the boredom, malaise, and routine that has replaced the childlike wonder, excitement and imagination that used to fuel our days.

But, like children, we tend to not want to take our medicine, so we immediately counter with “I don’t have time for that!”

Ah, but remember the time-twisting nature of moodling?

When you make time for moodling, moodling somehow makes time for you.

It gifts you with creative solutions to old problems. It contributes to flashes of insight that help you remember exactly where you left that thing you’re looking for before you have to spend an hour searching. It cuts the time to write your monthly report in half because while you were moodling, there was a subroutine running in the background that was organizing your thoughts without you realizing it.

And there’s no better time to give moodling a try than right now in the middle of winter.

Cozy up to a fire in a comfy, lambswool sweater like today’s VPOD.

Allow yourself to get recharged by plugging in to nothing at all.

Remember what it’s like to take two hours to do a crossword puzzle, or to slowly cross-stitch a few rows of your sampler, or to sketch horrendously but gloriously, or to get lost in reminiscing.

It’s just one more way to unleash creativity, in fashion and in life, for any Vintage Crusader!

Available at Twin Hearts Vintage.

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VPOD: Jean Paul Gaultier Catsuit, a 1950s Beaded Skirt and Making the Naughty AND Nice List


vintage 1990s jean paul gaultier pour equator catsuit

vintage 1950s beaded circle skirt

Right around now is when parents start pulling out a pretty strong behavior card: Santa’s Naughty and Nice list.

Think about it.

You don’t hear parents out in public with unruly kids in June sternly admonishing them, “Behave! You don’t want to end up on Santa’s Naughty List or he won’t bring you any presents!” But it’s a common occurrence during these last few weeks before Christmas.

And putting aside my feelings about the whole Santa myth for a moment, I have to ask why there has to be a Naughty OR Nice List and why there can’t be a Naughty AND Nice List. After all, sometimes it pays to be Naughty.

For instance, we all learned that we should respect our elders and not talk back, right? That’s playing NICE.

But that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t use your voice and speak up for yourself if someone is taking advantage of you. No, go ahead, SPEAK UP! Even if it means that you’ll receive one big black mark on that person’s Naughty List for doing so.

Or, here’s another example.

We all learned that we should try not to hurt other people’s feelings, right? NICE people don’t do that.

But don’t you most respect the friends and loved ones in your life who can be brutally honest with you? Who can call you on the excuses and rationalizations that work with everybody else but don’t work with them because they hold you to a higher standard? The people who aren’t afraid to bruise your feelings if it means helping you see a truth that’s in your blind spot and holding you back?

And where do these people live? I know I have them on my Nice List.

Or let’s take the example of a hassled, frazzled mom juggling a bunch of kids and a job. Or a single person juggling her career and caring for a sick or elderly loved one.

What’s NICE is to unselfishly give and give and give until you can’t give any more.

What’s NAUGHTY is to say NO once in a while. To selfishly say I NEED A BREAK and this next hour is for ME. And then to take that time to re-charge so you can return to your challenges conscious and refreshed.

Now, is there anyone out there who would put you on a Naughty List for doing that? If so, I say THEY’RE the ones who should go on the Naughty List! Don’t you agree?

Debbie Ford, author of The Dark Side of the Light Chasers among other bestsellers, has spent her career teaching about our Shadow. It’s that part of ourselves that we bury, that we don’t want to acknowledge, that we try to suppress or hide. It’s the NAUGHTY side. The part of us that we identify as lazy, critical, controlling, selfish, angry or weak.

But rather than trying to tame this beast and making sure every one of our actions shows up on somebody’s NICE List, we need to integrate and reclaim these Naughty aspects of ourselves and use them to serve our purposes.

Just as there are often gifts hidden in our greatest challenges, there are also gifts hidden in our greatest weaknesses. And by shifting our perception of what’s NAUGHTY and NICE about ourselves, we are empowered to live out lives that are so much more whole and authentic.

So don’t feel like you have to choose between today’s Naughty and Nice VPODS.

It’s quite all right to admit that you find both of them appealing whether you’re more drawn to the sleek, wicked, attention-grabbing vintage 1990s Jean-Paul Gaultier catsuit or the more innocent and demure vintage 1950s beaded circle skirt.

They’re both naughty AND nice choices for a Vintage Crusader!

Available at Chi Chi and the Greek.

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VPOD: Vintage 1970s Stephen Burrows Beaded Dress and Cyber Shopping


vintage 1970s stephen burrows beaded jersey dress

vintage 1970s stephen burrows beaded jersey dress

It’s Cyber Monday so let the online holiday shopping frenzy begin!

Actually this is my kind of frenzy. No waiting in line for stores to open their doors. No pushing and shoving. No pepper spray.

Just me, in my bare feet, in my quiet apartment, sipping a cup of green tea and knocking out all my holiday shopping in an hour or so.

Now as someone who studied adult learning for a good part of my career, I believe that just as there are kinesthetic or tactile learners, there are also kinesthetic or tactile shoppers.

These gals need to touch and feel the goods they’re purchasing. They actually enjoy the shopping experience more when they can chat with a sales clerk, try on clothes, move hangers down a rack or press the buttons on an appliance before making a purchase.

And they probably battled the crowds to do their holiday shopping on Black Friday.

But for gals like me, there’s Cyber Monday, which offers great online deals and other distinct advantages:

1. You can buy local even though you’re far away.

These days most small businesses have a presence on the Web.

This means that someone like me, who shops for family and friends on the other side of the country, can forgo gift certificates from big box retailers and instead send treats from local florists and favorite hometown restaurants. I can support local independent movie theaters and bookstores. Or even purchase cooking classes, music lessons, or artwork from local experts.

And those large, bulky gifts that would cost an arm and a leg to ship? Well, with a little bit of cyber research, you can often find a local small business willing to deliver the same item for a fraction of the cost.

2. It’s good for the environment.

This is particularly true if you do all your shopping from one online retailer.

Instead of traipsing across town to a sporting goods store, book store, electronics store and kitchen store, you can just visit a large online retailer like Amazon and get all that shopping wrapped up (literally!) in one fell swoop.

And by using one online retailer rather than four, all those gifts will be shipped together and reduce the impact on the environment in terms of both carbon emissions and packaging waste.

3. It’s good for your pocketbook.

There’s no doubt that it’s much easier to comparison shop online and there’s also plenty of customer reviews online to help separate reality from hype.

Plus it’s a whole lot easier to resist impulsive buys when you’re pushing a mouse around instead of a shopping cart. After all, when you click “Go to Checkout” online you don’t have to walk by a bunch of tempting sales racks.

And there aren’t little extra expenses like parking or pit stops at Starbucks to take bites out of your wallet.

But one word of caution.

Work hard to stick to a cyber shopping plan or like me,  you’ll start your morning shopping for TVs and somehow find yourself drooling over a beauty like today’s VPOD a few short hours later.

And this vintage 1970s beaded jersey dress by Stephen Burrows truly stopped me in my tracks.

I mean, if you’re wearing a treasure like this, it won’t matter how many LED screens or pixels are in a room. All eyes will be fixed on you.

It’s a real showstopper for a Vintage Crusader!

Available at Dorothea’s Closet Vintage.

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VPOD: Vintage 1920s Southwestern Beaded Flapper Dress and Perfect Pushups


vintage 1920s southwestern beaded flapper dress

“How do you expect to change the world if you can’t do ten perfect pushups?!?!”

Darien Gold, my genius pilates instructor, recently issued this challenge during class and well, I have to admit, she makes a good point.

Keeping our bodies healthy has got to be at the top of all of our priority lists, long before we get to items like “own one pair of jeans that fit perfectly.”

After all, I’d rather have a healthy body and the sorriest-looking clothes you’ve ever seen than an unhealthy body and the designer-filled closet of my dreams.

But making health a priority isn’t easy…and it may not always be popular with your friends and family.

While you’d think your loved ones would support you in your quest for good health, it’s often these same loved ones who encourage you to break your diet with “just one bite” or complain when you crawl out of bed to go to fitness class on Saturday morning instead of staying home to cook the pancakes.

Plus it takes an enormous amount of discipline and desire to eat ice cream only a few times a year or limit yourself to one martini on a night out with the girls.

But, as they say, HOW YOU DO ANYTHING IS HOW YOU DO EVERYTHING.

And when you develop respect for your own body and health, when you develop the discipline to do the things that get you healthy and keep you healthy, and when you develop an attitude that health is indeed wealth, you will find you take these same attitudes with you into everything that you do.

Before long you’ll find that healthy respect you developed for your own body will extend to your loved ones and friends. You’ll want all of them to be healthy, too.

Then it will extend to strangers and perhaps you’ll find yourself doing a walk for cancer or volunteering at a local health clinic.

Over time it can even extend to the planet and before you know it you’re helping out at Heal the Bay or fighting to clean up your local park.

And you’ll even be able to see how your healthy attitude extends to simple things like your clothes and other possessions.

You’ll want to keep them healthy and looking good, too, and before long you’re treating them differently.

No more tossing the laundry into the washing machine before turning items inside out and making sure everything is buttoned and zipped.

No more undressing and tossing your clothes over a chair at the end of the day. You’ll take a moment to hang them up and air them out. On real hangers. Not those awful wire ones from the dry cleaners.

Heck, you may eventually say no to the dry cleaners altogether and find yourself hand-washing more and dry cleaning only a handful of items a year.

And if you’re having trouble finding the motivation and discipline you need to get or keep your body healthy, why not start here?

Because the cycle works in reverse, too.

Take great care of your clothes and you just might find yourself wanting to take way better care of other things like your body and health, too.

For inspiration, just look at today’s VPOD.

This vintage 1920s flapper dress with a Southwestern beaded motif received tender loving care over decades and decades and it looks almost as good as the day it was made.

I certainly hope I can be this well-preserved and look this good when I’m approaching a 100 years old!

And that’s one healthy attitude for any Vintage Crusader!

Available at Vintage Textile.

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VPOD: Vintage 1920s Beaded Flapper Dress and Love at First Sight


vintage 1920s beaded chiffon flapper dress

Do you believe in Love at First Sight?

Instyle Magazine reported the results of a Unilever Poll that confirmed that 70% of women DO believe in Love at First Sight…with clothing!

Only 54% of women believe in love at first sight with men.

And I totally get it.

I mean, the beating heart, the sweaty palms, the obsessive thinking, the elation. I definitely can feel them for both men and clothes.

And this reaction happens fast — in 1/18th of a second. That’s literally faster than the blink of an eye!

But when you consider the three core components of romantic love — Lust, Attraction and Attachment — well, I’ll bet you’ve felt each of them for an an item or two in your closet at one time or another. And you don’t have to remind these sweethearts to take out the trash!

So go ahead and let yourself fall in love with today’s VPOD.

This vintage 1920s beaded chiffon flapper dress is simply exquisite and could just be The One you’ve been searching for to cherish for a lifetime.

It’s definitely a love-at-first-sight find for a vintage fashionista!

Available at Vintage Textile.

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