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Vintage Crusader Spotlight: RJ Lowery, Suits4Saints, Buying American and Dressing Your Man


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Mary Kincaid and RJ Lowery

This month’s Vintage Crusader Spotlight highlights the work of R.J. Lowery, founder and Chief Image Officer of Your Expert Image and founder of the Suits4Saints charity that is diverting used men’s clothing from landfills and onto the backs of needy men in Ohio.

I met RJ and his lovely wife, Connie, at a training conference this past year and he and I immediately connected over our similar views on fashion and style.

And while he’s been super busy preparing for a seminar in Columbus, Ohio next weekend, he was generous enough to carve out a little time for Zuburbia.

I think you’ll all enjoy his insights about style from the male perspective!

Before launching your own company, you spent 20 years working for The Tom James Company, the world’s largest custom clothier for men. That means that over the years you’ve dressed some very successful men including top entrepreneurs, lawyers, doctors, and CEOs. What did you find they all had in common in terms of their attitude toward wardrobe and style?

There were two common threads actually.

One group of clients hated dealing with clothing and their wardrobe and considered it “a necessary evil.” They just delegated it to me to handle it for them.

The other group was really concerned about looking good!  Sometimes that meant hiding the parts of their body that they didn’t like. Or sometimes they just wanted to enhance what they did have. But the bottom line is they wanted to use their clothing to ENHANCE their image so that it made them more attractive to others.

I found that either way, I could help people be perceived the way they wanted to be, gain more confidence in themselves and attract greater levels of success in ALL areas of their life!

And what is the RJ Lowery Personal Philosophy of Style?

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Three things. First, I believe one’s image should look like they care but without caring too much. Does that make sense?

We all know that person who just cares way too much and it becomes “all about them. ” But we also know those folks who just don’t seem to care at all and it smacks of self-image issues.

Next, I think one’s image should be intentional and congruent with the message you’re trying to send. I’m all about my clients having a wardrobe of congruency! Sometimes we look at someone, find out what they do and we go “Huh? I’m confused.” There are times when this may work out okay but not on a regular basis.

Lastly, I’m a big respect guy so I make sure that my clients are always paying respect to 4 factors:

1) The weather/season
2) The event/occasion
3) The person/people they’re with
4) Ourselves and our values.

You work with men and women, but mostly men, on a one-to-one basis to clean out their closets and overhaul their wardrobes. What do you think are the key benefits to working with an image consultant versus doing it by yourself?

I believe in working with EXPERTS in their field and letting them do their job.  When I hire someone, I hire them because they are one of the best at what they do and then I let them do it! So one of the benefits to working with me is that I’m good. I don’t mean that in an arrogant way—it’s just truth.

I’ve been one of the top image consultants in the custom clothing industry for over 20 years. I also partner with the finest manufacturer of custom clothing IN THE WORLD, who has local representatives in every major city worldwide. So, after a full day of working with me my clients are extremely pleased with the results and once the clothing comes in, they are even happier. There’s nothing like it!

You worked over 20 years for the world’s largest custom clothier but not everyone can afford custom-made clothes. What are the signs of quality that we should be looking for in off-the-rack clothing?

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First of all, I’m a big American-made guy.  I think a a lot of people forget that we have American companies that still make clothing right here in the good ol’ USA!

So whether it’s suits, sport coats, pants, shirts, ties, shoes or even nice jeans, I would say look to buy American FIRST. The quality, in most cases, is fantastic, and you can find most styles that you are looking for. It cracks me up when people say, “I want an Italian suit” and they have no idea it was made in China!

People are making very poor decisions because they are uneducated on the topic and because they don’t take the time to do it right or pay someone to do it right for them.

Using suits as an example, you can get custom-made for less than you think. You can actually stay American for about $800 and up, but if you want to invest less, I recommend going South, not East. The company I partner with has shops in Chile and can deliver suits at a retail price of about $600. Plus, it’s good to know the nation whose manufacturing we’re supporting isn’t a communist regime who would still love to take America down!

Beyond that it takes time and money. If you don’t have the money to have someone help you then you are going to have to take the time. Don’t make impulse decisions and don’t be afraid to walk away if something doesn’t fit right or look fantastic on you—or your man!

You bring up a good point. I’m sure that many women reading this would love their men to be more stylish, to “up their game” so to speak. And I once heard you say that one of a woman’s best accessories is a well-dressed man. So what advice do you have for us women to help our men care more about their personal style?

First thing I would say is go to DressToAttractSuccess.com. Your readers—or the men in their lives—can watch a free video I did on The Five Fashion Faux Pas for Men. It highlights the most common mistakes men make when dressing AND how to avoid them!

I’ve watched this video and just want to point out that your Five Fashion Faux Pas for Men are also mistakes a lot of women make. So ladies make sure you should check this out, too!

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Absolutely!

Is there anything else you suggest we women do?

Next, you need to find out what “guy” your man wants to be. Does he want to be the classy, elegant  gentleman? Or is he the old school, old money type who doesn’t want to appear too “dandy?” Maybe he wants to be seen as the chic, trendy guy who’s “with it.” Or he might want to be that guy with an edge. You know what I mean.

And you may think you know your man, but if you can get him to talk about his image before having someone like me come to work with him, it makes things a lot easier! But be prepared. You might be surprised with the answer you find once you start talking.

Also, getting a third-person involved and having their objective opinion can be very helpful.

Then make a day of it! Going through the closet together as a couple with an image consultant can be fun. It doesn’t have to be a chore.

Finally, tell us a little bit about Suits4Saints, the project that is so close to your heart and that is keeping tons of great men’s clothes from ending up on landfills and instead is channeling them to men who actually need them.

I started Suits4Saints about 15 years ago when I realized that many men I was working with were THROWING AWAY their old clothes after they got my new clothing in!

While that was a compliment to my quality and service, it made me sick to my stomach. I thought to myself that there has to be someone else who these clothes could fit and who would be blessed to have them. So I decided to offer an alternative.

I offered to take that clothing to the charity of my client’s choice and get them a receipt for tax purposes.  Right about that same time, I was elected to the board of my church and I started meeting more and more people who had needs for nicer clothing but couldn’t afford it. And Suits4Saints was born.

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RJ Lowery with client

We now have a room in my church with cedar racks filled with clean, donated clothing. I’m not sure of the exact statistics but we’ve now had hundreds of people that have either contributed or been blessed by this charity. It’s incredibly humbling to be a part of physically putting these garments on the backs of men receiving these clothes. It’s so awesome to see their faces and watch how they leave with such pride in their new outfits!

I can’t tell you how many times clothes have come in to the organization and within days I’m made aware of a need. Then when I fit that person, he’s THE EXACT SIZE THAT HAD JUST COME IN! And I’m talking about custom-made clothes. Wow, incredible, incredible experiences. There are some times that I can’t help but be blown away when I realize I’m part of a much bigger, grander plan. My second favorite book starts off with the line “It’s not about you.” I think we all need to be reminded of that from time to time.

We certainly do! Thanks so much for your time RJ and I look forward to working with you in the future!

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For more info on RJ’s products including his Extreme Wardrobe Makeover Day, his business seminars or his Suits4Saints charity, give him a call at 888.404.3468 or head on over to RJLowery.com.

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Karl Lagerfeld for Impulse Only at Macy’s Debuts Next Wednesday


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Gear up for next Wednesday’s Karl Lagerfeld for Impulse Only at Macy’s capsule collection launch, with this behind-the-scenes video of Mr. Lagerfeld working on the sketches, interacting with models, and commenting on the most anticipated affordable luxury collection of the season.

My favorite Lagerfeld moment from the video?

His declaration: “Think pink but don’t wear it!”

Just click the image to view the video.

Wall Couture: Dress Up Your Walls with Eco-Friendly Museum Fashion Banners


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You may never have the means to own a couture fashion masterpiece worthy of display at a museum, but don’t let that stop you from enjoying one of these masterpieces right in your own living room.

Thanks to BetterWall, an ingenious collaboration between an art historian and an environmental consultant, many of the vinyl and canvas museum exhibition banners which once adorned streetlights (and which were normally sent to landfills after the museum exhibitions closed) are now being recycled as contemporary art for the home.

Better yet, a portion of the proceeds from the sale of each banner benefits its respective museum.

Plus you get free shipping, free hardware with super-easy installation instructions and, I might add, a mighty safe piece of art to hang above your bed if you live in an earthquake-prone zone like I do!

It’s gorgeous wall couture for eco-friendly vintage fashionistas.

More info available at BetterWall.com.

Zuburbia Chats with Celebrity Stylist Annabel Tollman


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” You Can Have Anything You Want In Life If You Dress For It” – EDITH HEAD

This quote, posted on Annabel Tollman’s website, summarizes the philosophy of this talented celebrity stylist and eBay Fashion Contributor. Born in Brussels and raised in New York and Los Angeles, she was sketching fashion designs from magazines even as a young girl. Studies at Central St. Martins paved the way to editorial positions at Wallpaper, Maxim Fashion and Interview Magazine.

And her resume doesn’t stop there.

Celebrities she’s dressed include Scarlett Johasson, Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen, Cynthia Nixon and Jessica Simpson.

Brands who’ve recruited her consulting services include bigwigs like Moschino, Albert Ferretti and Chloe.

Clients who’ve tapped her styling genius include Nautica, Van Cleef & Arpels, and L’Oreal.

And most recently, as if she’s not crazy-busy enough, this super-stylist has been tapped by Fashion.eBay.com to tweet, curate and post videos for their new fashion destination that allows hip fashionistas to browse 19 million listings by style, brand, boutique, category and trend.

And wonder of wonders, Annabel must have found a way to squeeze some extra minutes into a 24-hour day because she graciously chatted with Zuburbia recently about Red Carpet fashion, shopping for vintage on eBay and this Spring’s top trends.

Before your celebrity styling days and before your affiliation with eBay, you were just 26 years old and senior fashion editor at Interview magazine. What advice for you have for anyone hoping to hit the ground running in the fashion industry and eventually achieve similar success?

In fashion (as with any profession at all) you have to work VERY hard. If you just want to be famous or have a glamorous life then there are much easier routes to that end than the fashion industry – those things can be a by-product of success but are not an end goal in themselves. Decide what you want to do or who you want to be in 10 years and what you are going to give in exchange for it. Don’t be afraid to approach people you want to work with and tell them that you admire their work  – flattery opens a lot of doors!

annabel tollman quote 2It seems every young fashionista I talk to gushes about how he or she dreams of being a celebrity fashion stylist. Why do you think your job holds such appeal and is it as glamorous as it appears?

I think that celebrity styling has become much more visible in the past few years hence its explosion into the public consciousness. When I was studying fashion at St Martins, everybody wanted to be a designer, stylist or journalist. It’s just another phase and I’m sure that everybody will want to be a blogger before long. And no job in fashion is as glamorous as it appears – our job is to create illusions, create fantasy – there is always a backstage at any theatre.

You are most definitely a Vintage Crusader and you often integrate vintage into your own personal wardrobe and that of your styling clients. Where did your love for vintage begin and where do you see its place in the fashion spectrum?

Vintage always used to terrify me – all those drag queen karaoke sequinned shifts and bad prom dresses seemed so repellent. It wasn’t until I found my vintage era and how to make vintage shapes work for me that I really started wearing a lot of it. The main thing that I love about vintage is all the amazing workmanship – the covered buttons and tiny buttonloops, the hand-beading, the cut-work, the embroidery. I think that vintage is becoming more and more important in the fashion spectrum, not just for reference or design purposes but for actual wearing. I think consumers are getting to know how and where to shop for vintage finds and that it’s a great way to add some flair and a unique touch to their wardrobes. Online shopping has really opened up the possibilities too – no secret how much i love to trawl eBay for vintage wonderfulness!

What are the absolute favorite vintage pieces you have sitting in your closet right now?annabel tollman quote 1

I’m really feeling the 20s and 30s right now – Baz Luhrman is filming his version of The Great Gatsby and I think that it’s going to have a massive impact on those eras making a resurgence in our wardrobes. I bought a ’30s black wool dress with black bugle beads – I’ll wear it belted and with long purple suede Louboutin boots. I also recently bought a hat from the ’60s by Oleg Cassini which is sort of like an exaggerated riding hat and looks brilliant with my Alaia coat.

There are so many amazing vintage evening gowns and I am always disappointed to see such a lack of vintage represented on Red Carpets. Why do you suppose that is?

I use quite a lot of vintage for Red Carpets oddly enough! I do think there are a couple of factors that limit the amount we see: The dresses have already been altered or shortened so if you’re tall then if the dress has been chopped off to fit somebody petite, tough luck because there’s no calling to get more fabric. Another factor is that there are only a few vintage vendors who will lend vintage for red carpet. Most will want to sell the dress, which obviously isn’t really an option when every designer is throwing a one-off gown your way. Additionally, there are only a certain number of vintage dresses out there!

ebay fashion iphone appThese days, in addition to styling, you’ve taken on a new role as a spokeswoman for eBay Fashion. Each week I look through thousands of listings to curate my eBay Roundup Of Vintage Clothing Finds and it’s very time-consuming. What tips and tricks do you have for finding the hidden gems among eBay’s bazillion fashion listings?

I have to confess that I spend many hours on the site each week. I love the eBay Fashion iphone app because you can really pinpoint what it is that you are looking for in fashion terms – era, piece, color, size, which speeds through the millions of listings (and you can also virtually try-on pieces and curate your virtual closet!).

As a regular eBay customer yourself, what are your biggest pet peeves among sellers? What do you look for in a seller with whom you do repeat business?

I haven’t really ever had a problem with sellers, as such, but I have bought things that don’t fit – either I don’t read the measurements properly or else I imagine that I am thinner than I am. I do of course look for Top Rated Sellers, but eBay has Buyer Protection which means a safe shopping experience regardless.

What do you see as Spring’s key trends and what keywords should savvy vintage fashionistas be using to search eBay for key spring wardrobe pieces?

I love the return to grown-up clothes rather than the slouch that has become de rigeur of late. I think “blouse” “silk” and “trousers” are all great search terms. The bold explosion of color is really exciting…”tangerine” “cobalt” “fuschia” and “chartreuse” should do the trick.  Lastly, the restraint of the minimal look is so refreshing. “Celine” would work really well for new designer apparel, or there are amazing vintage “’90s” pieces from “Helmut Lang” and “Calvin Klein” and “Prada”.

Finally, where can we look forward to seeing your work in 2011? Anything in the pipeline you can talk about?

I can’t say anything yet because I dont want to jinx it, but there are very very exciting things happening in 2011. Stay tuned!

We most certainly will! Thanks so much for chatting.

You can read more about Annabel on her website at AnnabelTollman.com or at eBay’s FashionVoice.


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